Power

Have you ever thought, not great ideas lead to success but power is one which makes path for achieving that idea....
I believe strongly in that opinion...
Power is not merely having rowdies and money around you, it's authority, a POSITION, in which you stay and are able to RULE...
This thought came up to my mind while preparing presentation about higher studies on Vivekananda's birthday, Jan 12th, so I asked the students there- eppudaina anukunnara nene kaani commissioner ayyi unte ila chese vaadini, nene kaani Collector ayyi unte district ni ila marchevaadini ani...
(self dabba) I loved my dialogues there..
My father used to tell, while discussing politics that, ideas are not enough, authoritative ga undali to achieve those ani...( He never told to whom he voted, Democracy it seems :P )
Then realized its importance when I was not selected for TAB last year..
And so contested for CR elections, to change, to do my part, which I believe I can not do for FREE..

Okay if you think enough of big stuffs... Here it is home stuff...
Order we follow in home while some work is assigned to us..
Father > Grand Father > Grand Mother > Mother > Sister/ Brother
Why this disparity??
If Dad asks you to do, the works gets completed in the next minute, if same work was given by sister, aa pove nuvve chesko is the immediate answer..
Its just authority, the Respect we give to the people at higher power...

No conclusions and no philosophies in this post... Just a thought and wanted to present.. :P ;)

Trust

Since few days, looking at people around me, who used to share utmost secrets and now switching their party to some one else is the basis for this post..

So was thinking what will be the Important element in any relationship ??

Its not friendship, 

not love, 

not any help or use with other...

Its one and only one Trust.. Belief...

Read a forward message recently- Trust is like giving some one the full power to destroy you and knowing that they will not do it...(some thing which sounds like this) 

and also a dialogue from movie Ala Modalaindhi, when Hero asks his mother- Ela telusthudhi aa ammayi kanabadithe, that she is the one...She replies putting her hand on his heart, Nuv decide ayinappudu...

This is very true and really touched my heart..

This is true not only in the issue of finding a girl friend, but in any case, any relationship..

You should decide..which means you should Believe ... 

Have faith that what ever happens, the worst in life, the worst in any case, you should not let them go..

hold hand firmly and believe that you can change for them, and they change for you (in a good way though :P )

They listen to you, they will be there for you...

The ability to forgive, which should be equivalent to a mother or father forgiving you...

why do relations break, why does distance between hearts grow??

Its just you lose the trust..

Heart becomes a rock, very hard to melt, may be because you got dumped, so that you never trust any one..

Never want to see them, never want to think about them, never want to spend with them,

But there a very powerful tool, TIME, which heals every thing..Wait for the correct time to get used to things or get things right...

just one thing..Bottom line of the post- never lose trust in dear ones, dont let others lose faith in you..

can it be true???

Was away from blog, writing it, managing it since few days, kinda busy sleeping playing and college, piling up topics to post..

This particular post is a small doubt ringing in my mind, since few ( no many) days, eating away half of my time..

What is the most painful thing??

Failure in job???

Missing your close ones???

Love ???

and any thing, and every thing you felt bad...

Do you find some thing common in all these??

I say it is REJECTION...

Every thing goes on fine, very well, lots of effort and struggle...

But if finally THE END result is you are rejected, makes some one feel the Bad the most..

As heard so often, Forgetting things is humans gift, but as it comes to things, you wish, you desire, to be with you, and it does not reach you...it can never be forgotten...

even if you get some thing better, or beautiful or great, the thing lost is lost for ever and the void remains a void for ever...