never ever...

Few questions rolling in my mind since few days...

What is the criteria to check whether a person is good or bad??
What is the reference that we should take??
Why a person liked by us , hated by others so badly???
Should we listen, believe to a third person who is closest to us talking about some other one??
If a person is good to us and seems very bad to our best friend, and they always scold them, what should we decide about that person???
The way the person behaves with us has only to be taken into consideration??? or best friend's suggestion??
Should there be some one in our life to share our personal matters?? ( no i guess )
Is there some thing beyond making our parents happy??
Is there no way to control our feelings towards some one to make parents happy???

Now few points which I think are answers...

No person is good or bad, it depends on what we see... As told in a telugu proverb "Pacha kaamarlu unnavaadiki lokam antha pachaga kanipisthundhi" So look good in every one... Though they are very bad, don't waste your precious time on scolding that person..
And coming to the 3rd person's comment on the one you like, it's clear cut that, any thing is taken as negative by the 3rd person, coz they are unaware of what is between you both, so better don't believe them...
If some one is mistaking what you are talking to them, talk to them about the point, and if they don't understand you, better be away from them, they don't deserve your care...
The only thing that matters is how one behaves to you and nothing else... Why consider every single piece on earth...
No need to discuss your personal things with every one, they are not going to do any thing, and what it in turn leads to is self-degradation and nothing else... There will be only one person dropped by God for you, find them and talk...
You are not put on this earth to console every one on your way, because in return you will be left with few bad comments but not appreciations..Don't place all the people on top place in your heart, they don't deserve....Reserve your place in your heart... You are on top and you don't deserve all the scoldings....Save space for yourself...
Don't come to conclusions by what you see, hear... Coz no one can know what a heart speaks....Be positive...

Lastly courtesy from some forward message " If you love some one show it, it's better than telling... If you hate some one tell it, it's better than showing it..."
Though a person seems funny, jovial and like a tomboy, the feelings of the heart are same as yours... And more over they get hurt easily....
So... NEVER EVER HURT SOME ONE.....

If there is some problem with some one, let them know, it's easy to digest that way rather than learning it from a 3rd person...

Believe in what your heart says, nothing else matters... :) :) :)

Happy Independence Day...

Though this type of summaries are read every where I just want it to be in my list...
We hear people telling every thing about independence day, the great MARTYRS histories, present scenario of the country and all... Today I just received a message stating Anna Hazare ji fighting for the future of your children, support him... Thats so true that we need to support him...
We are now so happy, in college, enjoying treats, college politics, parties, jobs and all... What if some one like Anna did not fight against British years back??? You will be just merely a second class citizen of your OWN country.
What are we now...??? !!!!
First class citizens???
Not at all... Then we were looted by Britishers... Now by some other Indians... What difference does that make to a normal being like You and Me.???
I am not asking you to go to a MP, PM, president etc and discuss all these issues... Just in your limits, in your boundaries, in all the ways where your presence is felt, BE HONEST, SINCERE...
You fight with your parents to win your love, but why aren't you able to tell them that you don't want a dowry???
You fight with an auto wala for a single ruppee, but why are you paying huge bribes for your passport???
Just look into yourself, just once... What all can you rectify...
Stop small small mistakes... college politics, bribes, black tickets, ....
Enjoy your life, it comes just once... But not at the cost of your children's future...
Support a good cause, work for the nation...
I m writing this post not because today is Independence Day, but atleast on this day just think... What have you done in past, how to over come this fear in future and be truthful, honest, happy and a proud citizen.....
I can't give a highfy political summary, this is all what I can say...
Happy Independece Day.. Enjoy your freedom.... :D :D :D