Few questions rolling in my mind since few days...
What is the criteria to check whether a person is good or bad??
What is the reference that we should take??
Why a person liked by us , hated by others so badly???
Should we listen, believe to a third person who is closest to us talking about some other one??
If a person is good to us and seems very bad to our best friend, and they always scold them, what should we decide about that person???
The way the person behaves with us has only to be taken into consideration??? or best friend's suggestion??
Should there be some one in our life to share our personal matters?? ( no i guess )
Is there some thing beyond making our parents happy??
Is there no way to control our feelings towards some one to make parents happy???
Now few points which I think are answers...
No person is good or bad, it depends on what we see... As told in a telugu proverb "Pacha kaamarlu unnavaadiki lokam antha pachaga kanipisthundhi" So look good in every one... Though they are very bad, don't waste your precious time on scolding that person..
And coming to the 3rd person's comment on the one you like, it's clear cut that, any thing is taken as negative by the 3rd person, coz they are unaware of what is between you both, so better don't believe them...
If some one is mistaking what you are talking to them, talk to them about the point, and if they don't understand you, better be away from them, they don't deserve your care...
The only thing that matters is how one behaves to you and nothing else... Why consider every single piece on earth...
No need to discuss your personal things with every one, they are not going to do any thing, and what it in turn leads to is self-degradation and nothing else... There will be only one person dropped by God for you, find them and talk...
You are not put on this earth to console every one on your way, because in return you will be left with few bad comments but not appreciations..Don't place all the people on top place in your heart, they don't deserve....Reserve your place in your heart... You are on top and you don't deserve all the scoldings....Save space for yourself...
Don't come to conclusions by what you see, hear... Coz no one can know what a heart speaks....Be positive...
Lastly courtesy from some forward message " If you love some one show it, it's better than telling... If you hate some one tell it, it's better than showing it..."
Though a person seems funny, jovial and like a tomboy, the feelings of the heart are same as yours... And more over they get hurt easily....
So... NEVER EVER HURT SOME ONE.....
If there is some problem with some one, let them know, it's easy to digest that way rather than learning it from a 3rd person...
Believe in what your heart says, nothing else matters... :) :) :)
btw who is dat person???
ReplyDeleteu dint answer the last two....
ReplyDeletei think therz nthng beyond making parents happy :)
@ geetha : yes u r right... there is nothing else beyond our parents... those r the only ones were there, r there and will be there throughout our life with out expecting any thing... expect our happiness...
ReplyDelete@Ramya: Very nice explanation. Really like the way you look at things. Besides, i would like to add a few.
ReplyDeleteNone in this world will be totally good or bad to you through out. It is as simple as ramya today may not be the same as ramya 10yrs after. Then how could you expect others to be. Everyone and everything in this world would be the sweetest during a particular time-frame just like a budding flower, which looses it fragrance in a day or two.
Lastly, the flavor of any relationship doesn't lie in happiness you shared but the hard times you faced it together(though it may be the end of your relationship)
hmmm.. nice... comment kanna.. write it as a post in ur blog dude..
DeleteHey! Writing from the bottom of your heart I guess :P
ReplyDeleteSee good in everyone, yeah, but do not go blind by that visible good and ignore the extent of bad (edo try chestunna):D
No, I can't preach :)
Only one thing matters Ramya, your heart and your happiness. You can't stay happy for long, sacrificing your interests for the sake of the world :)
Follow your heart, it'll lead you to ecstasy :)
hmm... thats true..
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