my life my rules

Once upon a time, there lived a girl who was judgemental about people. Not that she is bad or mean any harm to anyone but was always with a preconceived notion of what a human being is made of. If someone was brought up in a certain family background like beggars, they are all selfish. Or someone like a Hijra lady begging on the roads are there only to irritate people. One day she was on her two wheeler. For the last couple of weeks her work wasn’t pleasant. Even her personal life was troubling her. Only one thought was running in her mind that day which was, “Let some truck come and hit me and I die on the road.” Last thing she wanted to see then was a Hijra lady coming near her, touching her, blessing her and if she does not want to give any money, get some curse from her. But as the Law of Attraction works it’s own way whether we like it or not, a woman inside a man’s body walked up to her. As there is no way to escape from her, she looked at her. The hijra gave a re...

Once upon a time there lived a beautiful family of a hardworking dad, a loving mother and a cheerful daughter. Life for them is all about being happy and looking for happiness in any situation. Dad as usual is busy carrying on his daily work. The mother and the daughter share a special bonding being together and spending time together. It sounds like a fairy tale till now. Then something which the god only knows happened to the daughter. She started hating everyone in her life including the mother. The mother like any other mother showed only love ignoring the hate. The daughter takes the mother for granted. Thinks that it's mother's  responsibility to show love despite the bad response. The mother still continues to love love and only love. One day the happy family went on a trip. A street dog kept following them. The daughter who is so mean to the mother was so friendly and starting making friends with the dog. She started caring and loving the dog. Mother took a dee...

Let me jump directly to the point and will drill to the details later. On the big wedding day the only thing that matters for a bride or a groom is the countless blessings that the near and dear ones give. So be in the right set of mind to receive them. And of course, it is your big day so learn to be in the moment and enjoy every bit of it. Now the details and other blah blah s... My wedding happened on December 6th 2015. And I wanted to have a very simple wedding but you know, parents don't usually agree to it. I took only 4 days leave from office for my wedding. And shopped only for ONE day in October. I didn't have time for the beauty parlor nor arranged for a beautician [because one of my friends is great at it] but she didn't turn up for various reasons. BUT nevertheless I enjoyed my wedding and always in awe thinking how great it went. I have had friends telling me that their wedding was a disaster and the reasons sound as silly as their parents were s...

Starting with a quote : If our goal isn't clear, every moment of the day becomes an excuse to get distracted.  Such a great line, told by my dear friend. Today as I woke up, I was very very frustrated cause of many things. And started the day literally with a fight and hatred. I got ready quickly and started to office. As I was driving, a bike came very fast from a lane, left to me and both of us stopped our bikes by applying sudden brakes. The guy on the bike was looking tensed and afraid that I may shout on him, I was looking angry not for this particular issue, but because of the frustrations since morning.. So we were juggling, left, right, left, right to make way for each other... Then the little girl, sitting on the petrol tank of the bike, with pink dress, pink bands for her hair and pink spectacles and bugs bunny teeth, laughed so hard thinking that her father (probably, the guy on the bike) and me were playing there.. She MADE my day.. All thoughts in my mind...

From me, about me.. :P ;) ఆమె  రమ్యమైనది ... ఆమె  స్వరం కమ్మనైనది... ఆమె గీతం పాడదగినది... ఆమె జ్ఞాపకం నా జీవితమైనది ... for friends ... భయం !!! నా కళ్ళల్లో కలగా మిగిలిపోతావని ... నా చేతుల్లో బొమ్మలా జారిపోతావని ... నా గుండెల్లో శిలలా ఉండిపోతావని .. నా ఊహల్లో మాయలా చెదిరిపోతావని ... నా జీవితంలో జ్ఞాపకంలా మిగిలిపోతావని ....

Another 'S' post... oh science freaks out there, its not about universe-space-big bang... not the real estate space to build your house, sell n buy land.. not space in your home to decorate things, furniture.. It's about Space, for your self, from you, for you... Time for yourself.. to think about yourself... I'm not asking you to be selfish, but thinking about you and only you is very important.. not about any one, not about parents, friends, lover or any one... and after all you should be fine to be happy with all those around.. all are very busy, tight schedules, so not to spare at least 1 hr for our selves, so all i say, just 5 minutes, in between you lying on bed and going into sleep.. enjoy your freedom in your space.. we sacrifice few things for few reasons.. it's nothing but losing our space.. unable to do every thing we want to do.. on the other hand we cannot be rebels.. we ought to do things as such.. so thinking about ourselves for 5...

Satisfaction !!! What is this?? I'm just trying to look positive in all,  coz positive points keep us moving forward and happy to some extent  but there is always some thing which makes us feel a bit sad,  like a pin pricking, an ant bite, a small one,   inside heart, very deep, deeper than the deepest ocean.. you will be rich,  lots of people around you,  but heart keeps on thinking about 1 thing or 1 some one. Then it clicked to me, satisfaction does not come from things, status etc satisfaction is a heart's thing.. it does not come from having a lunch in 5 * hotel, it comes even when eating in home with loved ones, Many more like this... so the differentiation starts... mind wants some thing, heart wants some other thing.. so if both gets happy by the same thing.. then satisfaction comes into picture.. Then another point clicked... is happiness different from satisfaction?? does one lead to other?? they must be different ...