Help...

I know my blogs are turning boring day by day, but it truly comes out from my heart..
My deep thoughts and huge time spent on thinking, thinking and only thinking...


Don't know why, but some times I feel so...That

I help you, just because I like you,

I don't want to see you begging for help before anyone, that is why I come forward,

I don't want to see you suffer,

I, truly, from bottom of my heart, willing to do that and so as not to put you into trouble, I help you...

Don't look down on me, I not helping you because I have loads of time pouring...

I am not helping to impress you,

I am helping, just because I want to..

This is my version..

I always hope you understand my real inner reason of helping you..

Huh.. and never think this way,

"There z one lady, a stupid one, will do what ever I tell , lets hand over this work to her", 

I will not read your mind, but if I get to know that you are like this, I ll give a damn about you in my entire life,

P.S. : This is as random as any other post. I didn't help anyone, and didn't suffer..

          I just wanted a post in my store about people selfishly using others for their help and later looking as of they never saw them before...Never have a cheap opinion about people helping you, never forget their help, never expect any return...

        

Being STRONG.... :) :)

Hmmm.... just refreshing and making myself free to prepare for tomorrow's exam, then i suddenly diverted to a random thought creeping in mind...
What is exactly meant by BEING STRONG...
A person who looks very healthy, fat, happy may have difficulty just to use stairs, always being teased as a fatso...
A person who looks thin, lean, can have a happy, large feast participating in athletics but never getting teased by friends...
So it shows being strong has nothing to do with how we look...
so what is it...
I guess...
It is ability to bear the pain..
It is the ability to face the challenge...
If you want a thing to happen you will bear the pain...wont you???
Being strong in any field, mentally, physically is not at all a easy thing..
does not Depend
on how you look
what background you have
how much money you spend or
how much time you spend
 it is just How willing are you to do that job...
every body can do any work,
what you need is just the eagerness and willingness and passion to do it..
not money, strength, age etc...

P.S.: every statement has a contradiction, can be proved wrong with an example, but this post is meant for them who tease friends that they are fat, coz they may be suffering and to those who have passion and think they don't have strength...It's just to encourage...

Patience...

Patience...

One of the greatest gifts from GOD to man...

If you think some one is not understanding you,

Behaving quiet weird,

Not showing love as they used to do before,

Is playing doubles roles, having 2 faces and 2 tongues,

Give them a chance to change, think, realize for themselves, what is what and who is who...

Wait, Patiently...

This is the age of fluctuations, disturbances, hot blood, and many more which may lead you to no where and away from friends,

Now you may feel, that you don't need any one coz there is your lover, parents to help you, but every one has their own value and it may take time for you to realize, but you will...

The time when you realize, is the time, when you want a time machine and go back to past, meet all of them once again and correct your mistakes, but once gone is gone forever...

Only thing which can help in such moments is PATIENCE...

Try to talk and let them know the wrong results and adverse effects of such mentality, foolishness...

But what is going to happen is a change...

every one is not going to be as they are now for the entire life..

Good may become bad and bad to good...

accept some one who hurts you, give them a chance to change..

after all if you do what they do to show your rejection, what is the difference between you and them???

A request is never expect some thing after a help and never tell what did you do after receiving help... it may be very easy to slip your tongue but takes one's life to recover from the pain caused...

I am not a preacher to tell all these, i have faced few of them and i have hurt a few people, an open apology to all those who suffered by my words, are suffering still, and I guess it's not so late...

The One...

How many friends do you have???

Who are THE BEST FRIENDS among them????

Which is your class group ???

Which is your district group???

which is your school group??

you have different answers for all these questions , right???

But

when you achieve some thing ,

when you upside down thinking over a problem,

while you fall head over heels in love,

when in deep sorrow,

when you want a suggestion,

when you want to tease some one,

go some where,

want to hug tightly and cry,

laugh loudly and shout,

feeling very very very very lonely,

Will you think of all those social groups around you...

definitely NO...

You will only remember THE ONE, among all those...

I am no ONE'S the ONE...

I have many THE ONES...

:P ;)

a random post... think if possible...

huh just thinking of random things which are pricking my mind amid exams...
just writing this to get rid of that...
Note: It will be boring.....
Don't wonder why this write up now...
Its just as random as any other post..
I read in some epic or purana, I don't remember that birth as a human being is result of very good deeds we have done in our past life and is the most valuable birth than any other life on earth...
We are born to do some thing useful, to prove our past.. (karana janmulu)
Without a reason and purpose GODs ain't crazy to send us here and watch us game..
It is now our duty to find what it is and work accordingly...
Why were your born only in INDIA coz fate of India is indirectly in your hands, you need to recognize that and work...
It may be managing your family or managing the government, or may be some great achievement in terms of economy, health to nation...
We have no right to end our lives at what ever time we want, coz we were not born by our will and wish...
Just think of your parents who sacrificed their whole life for you before having some foolish thoughts in mind..
Death is not end to any thing...
Solutions are born before the problem and searching for them, discovering them is the ultimate work of us...
A quote - If you run from a problem, it will find the worst possible way to follow you...
God has given brain with lots of IQ and thinking capacity to wonderful species like us not to DIE...
And if mistakes make you feel guilty, try to rectify them,..Share them with your close ones, ask for suggestions, come out as a new born, fresh, innocent and pure..Whats wrong in doing a wrong thing unknowingly and when you are ready to rectify it...Read Mahatma Gandhi's life history...
And pressure and stress, is it more than what our parents take every day, responsibilities, growing us up, taking care of their parents ??? And if studying is not your goal, pass out with a degree and enjoy rest of your life...And after all life becomes boring when there is no pressure,.. Sitting in a cusion sofa for the days together, thinking of nothing...rite??
NO conclusions and no endings...
Just a thought
SO THINK....

never ever...

Few questions rolling in my mind since few days...

What is the criteria to check whether a person is good or bad??
What is the reference that we should take??
Why a person liked by us , hated by others so badly???
Should we listen, believe to a third person who is closest to us talking about some other one??
If a person is good to us and seems very bad to our best friend, and they always scold them, what should we decide about that person???
The way the person behaves with us has only to be taken into consideration??? or best friend's suggestion??
Should there be some one in our life to share our personal matters?? ( no i guess )
Is there some thing beyond making our parents happy??
Is there no way to control our feelings towards some one to make parents happy???

Now few points which I think are answers...

No person is good or bad, it depends on what we see... As told in a telugu proverb "Pacha kaamarlu unnavaadiki lokam antha pachaga kanipisthundhi" So look good in every one... Though they are very bad, don't waste your precious time on scolding that person..
And coming to the 3rd person's comment on the one you like, it's clear cut that, any thing is taken as negative by the 3rd person, coz they are unaware of what is between you both, so better don't believe them...
If some one is mistaking what you are talking to them, talk to them about the point, and if they don't understand you, better be away from them, they don't deserve your care...
The only thing that matters is how one behaves to you and nothing else... Why consider every single piece on earth...
No need to discuss your personal things with every one, they are not going to do any thing, and what it in turn leads to is self-degradation and nothing else... There will be only one person dropped by God for you, find them and talk...
You are not put on this earth to console every one on your way, because in return you will be left with few bad comments but not appreciations..Don't place all the people on top place in your heart, they don't deserve....Reserve your place in your heart... You are on top and you don't deserve all the scoldings....Save space for yourself...
Don't come to conclusions by what you see, hear... Coz no one can know what a heart speaks....Be positive...

Lastly courtesy from some forward message " If you love some one show it, it's better than telling... If you hate some one tell it, it's better than showing it..."
Though a person seems funny, jovial and like a tomboy, the feelings of the heart are same as yours... And more over they get hurt easily....
So... NEVER EVER HURT SOME ONE.....

If there is some problem with some one, let them know, it's easy to digest that way rather than learning it from a 3rd person...

Believe in what your heart says, nothing else matters... :) :) :)

Happy Independence Day...

Though this type of summaries are read every where I just want it to be in my list...
We hear people telling every thing about independence day, the great MARTYRS histories, present scenario of the country and all... Today I just received a message stating Anna Hazare ji fighting for the future of your children, support him... Thats so true that we need to support him...
We are now so happy, in college, enjoying treats, college politics, parties, jobs and all... What if some one like Anna did not fight against British years back??? You will be just merely a second class citizen of your OWN country.
What are we now...??? !!!!
First class citizens???
Not at all... Then we were looted by Britishers... Now by some other Indians... What difference does that make to a normal being like You and Me.???
I am not asking you to go to a MP, PM, president etc and discuss all these issues... Just in your limits, in your boundaries, in all the ways where your presence is felt, BE HONEST, SINCERE...
You fight with your parents to win your love, but why aren't you able to tell them that you don't want a dowry???
You fight with an auto wala for a single ruppee, but why are you paying huge bribes for your passport???
Just look into yourself, just once... What all can you rectify...
Stop small small mistakes... college politics, bribes, black tickets, ....
Enjoy your life, it comes just once... But not at the cost of your children's future...
Support a good cause, work for the nation...
I m writing this post not because today is Independence Day, but atleast on this day just think... What have you done in past, how to over come this fear in future and be truthful, honest, happy and a proud citizen.....
I can't give a highfy political summary, this is all what I can say...
Happy Independece Day.. Enjoy your freedom.... :D :D :D