Trust

Since few days, looking at people around me, who used to share utmost secrets and now switching their party to some one else is the basis for this post..

So was thinking what will be the Important element in any relationship ??

Its not friendship, 

not love, 

not any help or use with other...

Its one and only one Trust.. Belief...

Read a forward message recently- Trust is like giving some one the full power to destroy you and knowing that they will not do it...(some thing which sounds like this) 

and also a dialogue from movie Ala Modalaindhi, when Hero asks his mother- Ela telusthudhi aa ammayi kanabadithe, that she is the one...She replies putting her hand on his heart, Nuv decide ayinappudu...

This is very true and really touched my heart..

This is true not only in the issue of finding a girl friend, but in any case, any relationship..

You should decide..which means you should Believe ... 

Have faith that what ever happens, the worst in life, the worst in any case, you should not let them go..

hold hand firmly and believe that you can change for them, and they change for you (in a good way though :P )

They listen to you, they will be there for you...

The ability to forgive, which should be equivalent to a mother or father forgiving you...

why do relations break, why does distance between hearts grow??

Its just you lose the trust..

Heart becomes a rock, very hard to melt, may be because you got dumped, so that you never trust any one..

Never want to see them, never want to think about them, never want to spend with them,

But there a very powerful tool, TIME, which heals every thing..Wait for the correct time to get used to things or get things right...

just one thing..Bottom line of the post- never lose trust in dear ones, dont let others lose faith in you..